Perfection is a need..indeed :)

dezeen_Stonescape-by-Kengo-Kuma_2 whether you  realize it or not, but perfection is the other name for survival, for beauty  and life. Composition, spatial arrangement , links and effects all must be in perfect harmony for any space to become a place. A doctor or a surgeon must prescribe perfectly and operate exactly or someone will die . You must wear, clothes or makeup ,hairdo fashion shoes perfectly matching your size or you can trip slip and fall. When we are cooking , we have to be perfect at all stages or waste the ingredients ..Politicians can not make any mistakes for a single approval or denial will lead to wars, famine and deaths.

Justice needs perfection,  and so does your family relationship..I used to think imperfection can be accepted , but when the documents displayed another department instead of the one I belong to..I didn’t accept the mistake..I wanted my certificate to be perfect.

Perfection in everything is needed, it does tire , take more time and effort , keep us vigilant and escape no short must be lived fully or it is wasted..So..from today..try to be perfect…in everything you do..It is not impossible just a bit difficult.

Flowers says it all

EchinaceaCheyenneSpirit.jpg.rendition.largest From closed up buds to blooming garden filled with fragrance that brings says it all..look good alive even for a day or two but put the best of show got one life..but so many dreams like flowers in garden of life. Spring may have ended, Autumn is coming..with golden leaves ..yet  flowers adorn life with rich variety.

Don’t smile if you never mean it..

Smiles are gift that we send from far and get it too..and each time we enjoy someone’s work or words or two..we smile ..the corners of lips they turn in fold and we do hold this moment in our heart..and as night advance..this moment is taken out and we can actually hear the sound..of a laughter within..eyes closed we watch this moment that makes cold feet it gets bold..and throw the blanket ..toss it’s folds..smiles are priceless..they leave the lips and settle in heart..and encourage people to melts away anger and evaporates sadness too..depressions can surround only38 a smile can clean all that dampness in your smile when you mean it from is priceless and bold.

From dust to dust




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from dust to dust we must pass this dunes of time, but as we progress from childhood to youth..we wait for puberty and the time of being young adults..freckled face and unsure eyes..that watch and wait..this time does pass like it has wings to fly..although we want to live long and healthy ..yet we fear from within to be labelled as Old..I was told..the reason Adam got into trouble was..he couldn’t hold back his wish to remain young forever..he feared not to age..but to get old and is part of our our father, stay young and look younger..than we are :)

Music Update: Michael Mulholland #14 in the Music Charts…


Beautiful songs , can listen forever..

Originally posted on Michael Red Crow Mulholland:

Yes, my friends, I am now #14 in the Music Charts for all of Los Angeles thanks to you, friends on Twitter, Facebook and elsewhere.  Thank you most sincerely….

While expressing gratitude, please allow me to inform you all that my All Veterans Hard Rock Band is Gaining Quite a Bit of popularity.  I have emailed my music to the Commanding General of the US Air Force NATO John E. Michel in Afghanistan, a dear friend and even though I have been in civilian status since 1986, he is still my CO. He is loving my music and sharing it with his fellow Aviators in his network and sharing my music with our men and women in Uniform serving our Great Nation abroad.  I am most grateful to the General, and am so excited about all this.

Furthermore, I have expanded on sales distribution via Every Single Digital Media Music…

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Will you forgive..

Each day..almost every time I do something wrong, a simple error from typo to mega mistakes that cost money, time and energy. I let it go..rarely I tell myself anything near scolding..sometimes…I even find causes , justifications for my actions.
If, someone else specially a sub-ordinate committed a similar mistake..will I forgive and let it pass ?
Can I remember that we all are human and err is but a part of nature. I pin point, abuse verbally, make faces or gestures .. like shrugging shoulders..rotating head like a pedestal fan …even take up the role of national broadcaster..and ensure each and everyone know..what a HUGE error was done by someone else..who is just as human as me.
I feel ashamed.. how seldom I treated others with same leniency that I thought was my edge/right ;) is like if I steal something, it is my need and when another person commits theft it is all about greed.
I will forgive..I have decided seriously..all other persons before I forgive myself or ask for forgiveness..from those I have wronged starting from neighbors, family , friends to boss. I do cause much anxiety and financial loss.. is it part of growing up ? and becoming mature.. getting old is never proportionate to realizing our role in is when life shows us a mirror..reflecting all our “bad” actions in stark nakedness..that we realize how ugly our actions, thoughts and words are/ deep they scar and demoralize another’s feelings.
I recall once, a colleague told me ,” I am upset..because boss scolded ..for coming late..becase he never comes on time.”

Where do you live ?

Are you near or far
Can you see or hear
Have you felt this close ?
As you do sometimes
when you bring your nose
to smell a rose :)
Are you with me now?
Or have you left and gone
Are you awake or asleep
can you tell me please?
Not really ;) if you are snoring
blaring the room.and am trying to rest
and get some peace

Attitude or aptitude

Human relationships have two main focus points. It is your attitude or aptitude, when we meet anyone, through their work or in person. Their aptitude is the main reason for interaction, then comes attitude issues.
Positive or or destructive , our evaluation is continuous..not because we are being judgmental in terms of labeling .. rather we are trying to find links ..or connections that are intangible yet important. Some refer to it as similar frequency , the indication of having equal amount of interest ..when we feel differently about a similar issue it is welcomed as a fresh angle, but when we fail to understand the subject , that is unacceptable. Because , we fail due to our low level of intelligence and poor concentration on the topic.
Many times as I read women magazines, there is always a column where they would focus on “what interest men” , as I skim ( no I am not trying to learn that ;) it reveals, the subject shows how important it is to be focused, be subjective and Honest.

SO, honesty is a ” key ingredient” for any relationship to make or break. When we are dishonest, we tend to lie by nodding our head indicating that we do understand but actually ..the whole thing went over our head..that is one of the reason, I write a comment on blog sort of vents out my understanding and gives the blogger a turn to correct me or add to my knowledge..and whenever someone post an incredible writing or photograph..the only way I can keep it by resonates the idea/feeling/message posted originally.

Flowers were not for me :)

I waited all the time in life..for flowers were really a delight one brought nor bought any flowers for me
they said it was not easy !!
Roses were signs for love and lust
Dandelions were great..but cost too much ;)
Pansies were sweet..and colors so neat
they thought ,,it was best to leave them as treat
Daisies for me were never right
No one got me flowers..that is so right
I wanted to fight for flowers “Just for me”
No no..they said,”It is not advisable to kill reality to fulfill a fantasy”