Home Work :)

http://www.bensbitterblog.wordpress.com is the bitterest blog on internet.

I must write about how does bens bitter blog rate on internet. I hardly read about bitterness and to evaluate meant to surely read a few blogs that does write about bitterness or are bitter.
Bitter Sweet blog at wordpress.com is about yummy recipes for preparing a delicious treat that has underlining bitter to make sweet taste better :)

The Bitter blog, is actually very inspiring and has ways to deal with getting rid of being bitter.
The scorned and slightly bitter blog, has a bit of complaining and ranting
Zack Bitter blog is not very bitter :)

So, in short all the labelled bitter blogs were not about promoting bitterness , it was planning an escape. People always have basic two ways for inspiring others..present ugliness to avoid it through hating or present it as part of life’s gift and accept it.

Now..why did I end up with a home work ? Me and my BIG mouth..yep I wrote to Ben that home work is good !! was I dreaming ? ouch !! had a bad awakening ..landed up with a 5000 words..I hardly write 500 words :)
I normally talk much and write less..for I don;t like to read a very long article..and I feel that others maybe like me :)

Now, let us come to rating Ben’s Blog about bitterness is better :) The idea behind Bens’ blog is to present views about everything or anything in life, through an episode that seemingly tends to be bitter..but is actually better. I think, that is what his blog is about. No. I did not copy his “About” write-up describing it.

Please read all that is bitter and evaluate bensbitterblog, kindly email your evaluation to me. This way, hopefully I can complete my 5000 words assignment .
Question is..if I do submit my assignment will it make him happy or bitter? If it will make him happy..then the whole idea of a bitter blog gets a red mark on the other hand if it makes his bitter..do we want to make him happy about bitterness ?

I think, the question is ,” To do or not to do” my homework ?
Ah! that is a good option I will add a poll..all those who wants me to complete my assignment should send me their article about ” Whether bensbitter blog is actually the bitterest on internet ” and those of you who don’t want me to keep my words..are free as bird.

No not I

Left me alone in cold dark night

We did scream. we did fight

was it wrong..went for long

endless venom that was a fright

Did I start ?

No  not I

Rumors spread and loneliness depressed

took pills..wanted to kill

had no urge , felt on verge

climbed up stairs

fell like a pair

but broke only a leg

and now ..feel despair

who pushed you to die ?

Did you or me ?

No. Not I

Will anyone ask to forgive

will you forget

can you rephrase

will it be another phase

of your ugliness and my cowardice

Will you leave to go

Will I say yes or No ?

No. Not I.

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Barren life

A barren life has little or no memories

full of despair and agonies

watch those eyes..dried up like dark wells

no feeling just puffy swells..no light or fire dwells

emptiness like branches spread out to search

birds, insects, butterflies or bees

no one come to sit on me…it’s lonely

no stars in sky..no moon to delight

no breeze that touch..no fragrance that fills

my soul like fire, my heart with desire

am alone and lonely…barren life has it’s shallowness

and endless miseries..

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Cake will do :)

Invite me to your birthday, I shall bring a cake a two

One with chocolate , another with pineapple juice

Bring in all the candles , I will fire it up for you

Blow it all away..and wish for something new

Love to share laughter, gifts and smiles with you

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Friends are always a good source to live a life renewed :)

Acceptance :)

Life is expectations and acceptance. We, are always aspiring to become or achieve a goal, few times we pull or push those we associate with to join or jump for reaching  targets and ultimately to a goal. Success, fame, health ,happiness or wealth, we got our little dream worlds right from the time we remember..yes  :) a very long time from that point in life, we now are looking back and ahead too.

Few things are unacceptable, these tend to create tensions and rebellious attitude, we fight for what we think as our right and  we hurt others in this war game. We, win and we lose..leaving our hurdles behind we aim higher and want to proceed faster. Are we chasing time and passing life ? Are we not defeating hearts and winning applause from unknown admirers. Are we popular on social website and an introvert in life ?

Marriage is one huge step in our life, where we “accept” the other as being our partner in all aspects of life. We are sharing from address to bills, name and blame . We are stick on with an invisible glue , clearly opposite yet magnetically attracted to faults, weaknesses  and humor. It feels there is someone within a reach to punch and kiss, hug and miss, tease or please , yet remain indeed your’s faithfully.

But, before we accept another human being into our life, we must accept our self too..to accept ..we must know ..what we are..and what needs to be improved or created ..so that other can find it easy to accept us. Perfection is always easy to accept, because we can relax and feel at ease, imperfection is rather challenging..moods sway..you burst and swear…or flare..too many indicators..loudness and your mind can not focus what to say ;)

Close your eyes and see your spouse face . Is it angry or happy ? tired or energetic ? Then open your eyes and look at yourself..can you see those emotions in your eyes ? We, the intelligent specie on earth has a mind that is never fully utilized, yet we always think we are smarter than the other..why? Partly, because we self indulge  or are egoistic..or thick head.

Acceptance is a huge umbrella, it covers more than the vows can ever list. It is a submission of self. A commitment to be able to accept all that may come, good or bad.

When we accept this challenge , then life’s achievements would be fun while we are on it’s journey, each failure would be accepted as each win would be celebrated. Eyes will speak, hands will caution and lips will remain sealed.

The song he is humming, you know which one and the mischievous teasing punch you have aimed just over his nose ..he knows with his eyes closed :)

You have learned to accept and there is no more to expect ..than an honest acceptance. 

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You from air and I from sea

waves are currents, and motion is clean

I make you cold, as you make me cool

I need air to breathe,

You need water to drink

We are different..Thank God!

Otherwise..I will suffocate and you will die of thirst.

I accept you..Do you ?

You have it but do you want it too ?

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A faceless figure with no outstanding attribute

lurking inside you like a devil’s own soul

making you miserable , cranky and old

Jealousy the mother of all evils..that’s what I am told

Partner of Devil

Cousin of Malice

Follower of Lies

Child of Revenge

Will tear you up ..in the end

Where ever Jealousy reigns

Darkness and fear looms

Honesty has no room

Always scheming for a perfect doom

It’s goal to bleed and slaughter

Adams’ sons and daughters

has no remorse no feel

Not an entertaining fantasy..but real

Eject it before others reject you

So..what can be done?

Can you run ?

No.

But, you can try one antidote 

Forgive, others in whatever they do :)

What I am telling you ..is true ..

Because..I tried it too..it works just fine

You will feel clean and blessed ..as divine

 

 

 

Photo : source David Bowie -DS Magazine

 

 

False or True

Do not ever say sorry

if you never worry

How your words killed

How actions felt inside

Don’t even think it

No never link it

Your false and fake words

Buttered up with lies

So..what if I am nice :)

I am also a bit wise

And will revolt..and surprise

with fist or tongue fight

I will only accept an apology :)

If you mean it ..and let go of pride

Improvise..improve and rise !!!

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Mind Your Language :)

The art of writing and speech is a gift. Human mind has many thoughts bubbling like a volcano, erupt and the gems are thrown high and up…and the lava melts and burns, yet enriches the soil.

But, we never like the idea of standing or staying where burning lava is..but we  do like the enrichment . Language, is the tool to express our gems of thoughts, words have meanings and when we use those words that are devoid of any “sense” , the slang..it is then the writing becomes a burning fuming huffing and puffing stream of screams..you want to run away or remain static with fear..but your attention is not where the writer would like it to be focused.

What makes a writing easy and direct, the underlining warmth and sweetness..are the choice of words we pick..to express and that does the trick ;) Of course, serious matters like court or economics, would be stern and firm. Yet. The words have meanings..so let us wash our brain from all those dirty words used, that makes the space stinking and uncomfortable.

Let us try and sound good, as good as our thoughts..why select the “foul” words..that are used mostly to show disgust and frustrations.

In all writing , prose or poetry be clean, clear, free and responsible . It will attract readers, your quality will contribute to overall writing style and soon, a huge group would be pursuing to write without the derogatory comments.

Harsh and fiery, will burn your ears’ drum :) let the fire in your thought spark a light in other’s spirit. Let it light, for it is right to write , right :)

Mind your language, it reflects and spreads..mirroring and copying ..words..

I was told

When I was three years old

Words are bold

Words are cold

Words can make the world shine like Gold :)

Do you want other’s to hold

Your words forever, in mind and heart

So..please do Start

To write it , Right

make words shimmer like Light

Vanishing the darkness of ignorance night

With a beautiful Moonlight :)

 

Why we try :)

In a life so easy, time does fly

You remain young at heart and seldom cry

Love is your partner and success your boss

You get everything quickly, nothing to throw or toss

Yet, inside you..there is urge to improve

Your aim is, now to prove

That you deserve this good  life

In this world and after, so you strive

An edge to excel and seek

A  profound name , not meek

Must we try for people or God ?

I searched myself and I found the truth

I must do it , for God only

That is the way to get it both

Must serve humanity and remain truthful in faith

We, trust, pray and finally rest as late :)

But never too late, if we make it to heaven’s gate

 

Woman :) A poem a rhyme

Soft, gentle, loving and kind

Who comes to your mind ?

A woman,is intoxicating as wine

She will be forever your’s, just offer to “be mine”

Why do you ridicule and abuse with words and fist

Why does her soul and body bear marks, when she resists

She is a woman, a source of joy

Do not play with her emotions, she is no toy

Respect her, trust her and be kind

She will make your life as bright as sunshine

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