Which one is easier ?

Should you opt to remain single in status and live together to avoid divorce ?

Do you appreciate the values attached to marriage ?

Can you get married to someone you like?

Or you get married..for the sake of getting into a relationship…but this ship is already sinking . Is it not true ? People have few dreams in fame, power and beauty..all combined it seems the melting point is marriage. Well, at least to the Asian residing in subcontinent. 

Girls parents main agenda is to get their daughter married ? Question arises why? For a better future ? Not always..but still they are in a rush to hand over their responsibility to another , even if it means you have to literally buy the groom ! Dowry and cash settled and delivered..but what if the amount fixed is beyond the reach of the parents. The young bride is tortured and burned to  death. Is that really worth ? Was she not a daughter you cared for and loved, if her life was any worth..then why not let her live at least..why hook her up with death and torture.

Married women after 10 years even are still paying off to stay married..few times a  sum of money is demanded  if the parents wanted to get something..but why should you bear the load of another household to get your daughter married..is not only supporting her cheaper ? Then there is a common statement, it is our culture ..well get it redefined..it is not a culture that makes people behave as uncultured  vultures.

Girls are human being..do not sell them and don’t buy them grooms, both are pathetic. Learn from other societies and appreciate the value of marriage and not weddings. Try to change this , if not action then at least with words, hoping someone would take action in a positive direction. Laws for anti dowry can only be implemented if it gets social support and recognition. All groom parents, please have self respect and do not plan to become permanent parasite on the bride and her family.. they are not family support program launched by the government authorities, they are just as ordinary people earning a reasonable wage..with a a daughter to wed :) 

I want to hope and live

Stranded and left in wild

It is always tough to decide

Must you lose your pride

is the only way to compromise

to have your journey in peace

can you allow others to deceive

they knowing, you know the truth

can thy take you for a fool

or worse..to be

a coward in heart

no strength to continue  nor start 

to live freely as the birds

they worry not  more than a meal

they have a perfect deal 

with them..I want to be :)

yes..till eternity

 

Healthy food ..must heal

We , the people of Bangladesh who wants to live and eat healthy are finding it next to impossible in consuming “healthy” food. Genetics improved and fertilizers protected the production, but to what extend must we add, will it be wrong to say..that today we consume formalin in fish, dyes in coloring , lead, zinc..in water ..Chicken has been fed to get fat and look healthy..what is happening ?
STOP .. and THINK .. Yes..we are all trying to appear healthy and not be healthy . Reality vs illusion, and guess what illusion wins..the fake master grins and earns loads of cash..and makes us spend fortune in recovery from consuming , adulterated food..which is actually poison .

I can not eat any fruit, vegetable, pulses, oil and tea , to name a few items that find its place on my dinner table. I do understand that production of food is a challenge with population explosion ,but here less is more theme works better :) I am sure.
I was happily planning to eat cucumber with it’s skin , when someone almost screamed..remove the skin or all the pesticides would land up into your system..and it may think that you are a pest..inside..and need to be eliminated.
Well, good old days were really “good” and we just heard about it..those who lived in that era are gone and happy.

Dark Chocolate

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Dark Chocolate ..with you it is never about taste
I sometimes find you a bit of waste :)
No ..no I appreciate your capacity to reduce my waist
and you are a healthy source of energy ..with bitter taste :)
You have no indication on surface
I mistakenly picked you up and ate off a bite
Only bitterness and no sweetness in sight
right right :) Just like a life with no wife

wish me happiness:-)

Each day is New:-)  when year pass we spend all the hours, then wait for last hour to mark the Beginning of another year. We wish close and dear,far or near a happy new year to live, love and laugh,while we are still here. No one knows if this hour is my last, I know not too. Will I last, this year through:-)  so I want to wish all, no matter summer or fall, its spring time for all, as long as flowers bloom,birds fly and butterflies beautify the world with it,s fluttering wings.

We wait and hope ,in between our working load, but we can not assure any result or conclude, what is best for you:-)  Let us think, aim and work,deligently,dedicatedly and daringly, if we pass we set new goals for next year too. But,if we fail, we will learn something new,we will adjust ,evaluate and improvise with better schedule, never giving up for hope is happiness. I wish you all happiness for each day, filled with hope:-) 

Destination Wedding :)

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Weddings are happy occasions you never want to miss, more if the one getting married is your favorite niece:) Best part of the wedding  , she already loves her groom before the marriage, that is very much reassuring and hopeful for the married life that would follow.

Along the Sandy beach of Phi Phi Island, a two hour leisure boat ride from Phuket Pier, Bangkok has much to offer.

The family arrived to attend the most memorable wedding :)). The nature was our host, of course our human host was the manager who runs the part of Phi phi Island that was classically decorated for the occasion.

The roof was huge, it was the sky and floor was soft sand mingling my feet to cheer, breeze was touching and making me smile, it was air and was conditioning my body to feel the natural temperature…oh..and sea was at our feet..how romantic can that be..very.

Our niece was dressed in green with gold and groom in off white ..both looked ..bold and beautiful ..Parents were smiling ear to ear as they walked the bride towards the waiting groom. The two love birds in their own words, expressed their love and commitment to try..yes that is important ..for we must acknowledge our shortcomings and then take one more step forward ..and promise to try and improve. You see, marriages are always made in heaven and we must never send it to hell.

Food was plenty, drinks were fresh and regular in supply, cushions were  arranged with low wooden tables..perfect setting to relax and watch..the nature and people..pleased with the occasion. My husband got so relaxed..that he did manage a small nap. I woke him and asked to join me in counting the stars..we gazed away..as clouds floated by..the music was soft and entertaining..so everyone could easily have a conversation.

Pictures were taken, greetings exchanged, young people were jumping high to express their mood..and also for a good group photograph. The lighting of paper balloon was a new experience, each couple got one to light and let it go, it carried our good wishes away..making us look at the night sky adorned with twinkling stars..and each time I caught a glimpse of the newly wedded couple..they were perfectly relaxed and enjoying….this was their day..their moment  of sharing happiness with those who cared ..The waves touched our toes and we realized it was time to go..

Thank you for inviting us all to your beautiful destination wedding..it was perfect and we are hopeful that you two would make your marriage a great success too :))

 

Happy anniversary with WordPress :)

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Ah! second year this Month..yes it was May ..So many days just passed by..I got nominated for awards and I passed them too.

Few were happy others refuse..and I wrote, read, laughed and shared my words, pictures and comments..had a lovely time and there is an end..I think by 2017 this Blog would survive and would I live to see it pass..I am not sure for life has no guarantees ..as you know.

Each year is like a waves from deep ocean absorbed at shore..I swim, I dive, I float and strive ..I am still enjoying this Virtual World :)

Hope to survive the twisty turf :)