Month: September 2012

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Driving a left hand car on a road where all other cars are right hand, has its advantages and disadvantages.

My husband who actually safe.but me I am sitting on the side that the cars are coming..unsafe.

Other drivers think..a woman is driving let us over take her..but my man’s ego get bloated and he doesn’t let this happen..I am floating..

When any bumper to bumper or brushing happens..I somehow get the heat..not my fault at least

Police flag down and asked me to produce license to drive..but its my husband who is driving ! husband is waiting for the in front cars to move ..the policeman comes and ask..where is the driver of this car..he is not suppose to park it here..but..says, my husband I am the driver and cars in front not moving..well he can also see that..doesn’t he?



When I was younger, I used to  do many household chores, like getting newspaper picking up cups or changing the calendar slots. Small fry :)) that was me. Once it happened, that our refrigerator was not working properly, and we had a prepared a drink that has milk ,thinking that it would get sour , my mother asked me to request her close friend to keep it in her fridge until evening, as we expected guest to arrive.I took the jars and gave it to her, after couple of hours I was told to fetch the drink, that was given to be cooled was already distributed and consumed.. bewildered, I was like lost.Guess what had happened, yes..the friend thought we had given her the drink for her and not just for keeping it. Since then, I am a bit careful in doing the chores ..

Small fry.

When you remember to forget…

When you remember to forget, you live with that forever

Mind is always so precise. Images are formed , sounds are deciphered , fragrance or odor, cold or hot. You never need to ask , mind knows it all. I sometimes want to recall

names, places, dates and reasons for the rise and fall, for every mistake that was made

I want to know, what to learn and how to let go. maybe, it is an escape from age, from failures from loss, what is it..I want to be but was unable to achieve. Wisdom, faith and honesty..that was supposed goals for me..wisdom came, faith retained and honesty..its fading away..that is what disturbing me. if I am no longer honest than I can not have faith nor be wise..I must remember not to forget, me.

Magical moments…


Magical moments. Life has surprises and shocks and nature has an ongoing artistic moments.

I find the sky to be magical. The wide screen, that so humbly touches the earth and uses it as the edge, of

a portrait..I wonder how can all this composition be so perfect. Moment by moment, endlessly, whenever I watch the Discovery channel, the majestic sky has a moving scenario that encompass the whole situation. 

of course, the credit goes to the mind behind the lens. The ones, who captures it but what about the scenery.. the poetry, the feel of that time. Looking at the sky..I feel one thing for sure, that it is looking at us, trying to wonder what we have to display. 

Sunrise or sunset, cloudy or rains, the windy days and bright sunshine play..the rainbow that is visible for sometime is the treasure, stars so bright but small, moon and sun that looks like a ball. 

I find that poetic..the sky and its clouds ..floating above our height and touching the mountain peeks so high..views..I love to see and share.

the magical moments are really every where.

The urban sprawl

Land is always recycled. the  mother earth may have witnessed the river’s changing the routes. Solid replaced by water bodies or reclaimed land. Whatever the minus or  plus the land has lived to watch architecture changing as per  people life style , technology, material, aspirations, politics and time. Now, the time is where we sit more and move less, but get to see many  places and join conversations with sleeping partners.

We are all trying to go green. After we have finished the wild life or rather restricted it to pockets, we are now going in the sea world and have started to make museums for our entertainment. After, sometime we will conserve the sea life. The main question is of balance, how much are we suppose to consume.What must be left as virgin. Can real estate development be slowed and why? Every individual should have ownership or there can be rented places, that has set rent increase.

What would architects, urban designer, town planners, landscape designers work on? How can they make a living, It is a question of rebuilding and reinvestment for more profit or better use.All this is really complicated and inter-related.


Always think before you p…

Always think before you plan

It is but important to visit people.The social aspect of our networking for getting jobs and opportunities are well know, therefore sometimes we have to pay a visit to the richman’s house. Getting dressed and taking all that may please or attract this man, we sort of get ready for a war.The first battle is with our self rspect, once this is killed think that everything is over, for a body without a soul is a zombie, doesn’t get hurt nor dies, again. The huge gatre has a well dressed guard with so many other gadgets, pass this and screening, you finally land up in the first lobby, here guess who checks you out..yes his dog. Dogs are very much polite and sincere but remember only to their master, we on the other hand are the unknown intruders. here, lies the main challenge how to keep a smile on face yet get a heart atttack due to the ferocious barking and almost a killing attack. But, then connection is important however, the very nature of humans want to escape danger. Fear, is uncontrollable and makes us weak, before even the master comes we must leave..limbs are important too we realize and its time to run literally but narrowly escape the dog’s close bite..maybe next time while chossing a rich man’s connection, we must do some research on whether or not he has a bull terrier ..or poodle as a pet..