What to do and Not to do :))

Morning ! Time to wake up and stretch !! Take a warm bath if its winter and a cool shower when summer. Now , fresh look at yourself in the mirror..come on  smile :))

Thinking what to do and not to do leads to, first is , “you ” prioritize people, the list definitely has you as the topper.

Who are the friends, colleagues, family members  that directly   nourishes you . when you are with them, you are relaxed and smiling. Give them more time in your life. However, those who you meet as obligation, they deplete you and cause fatigues that is a result of depression. Cut, their time in your daily/ weekly/monthly /annual encounter.

Now let us take a review on, what did you buy? If too many stuff is never getting used, it is better to donate or sell those, rather than keeping it and jamming shelves and life with extra burdens. There, feels lighter and cleaner.

Next, the work. If you are given assignments, always do those on priority. Better to take up easier assignments first  and delegating lesser time. Finishing those, gives you a boost and confidence  that helps in addressing projects that are complicated and tiresome.If, your boss doesn’t appreciate, then share your triumph with the ones, who know it mattered to you.

Fashions and trends, are always demanding but never op,t for those to make people’s perception about you get elevated . You should decide what actually is comfortable for you, financially, socially and  timely.

Single? Then be happy and chirpy, but don’t keep on hunting and fishing too long. remember , too much time lost on hunting would leave too little for eating your hunt. So, if you don’t find your soul mate  don’t linger on with hopes for a better tommorow. People are never gonna change, and if that is what you want , then they are not the ones you want :))

Keep extra curricular activities as extra, these should not eat up your valuable time for real connections and work.

Borrow less and lend wisely, both has stress and tension. When you have to repay or also when you wait for repayment.

Stand up..Now think how many roles do you play? a parent,  spouse, worker, player..then see how much is your capacity to cope up with each. You are not super human.For each role you need energy , to give and take, sending positive vibes and getting rid of bad/sad feelings.

Any incident or accident that happens. Limit the pain to the actual time and till you recovered. Do not drag that episode by repeating the ordeal again and again  It revives the pain and the trauma too. Think, that it has already passed..let it go..open yourself..let it go..

Life is all about living with love and hope, with people and work.Be useful and positive. It helps you and would certainly help those who come in contact with you :))

Have a lovely day! Get dressed and go go go :))

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