Now..that is more of a decision.
I have one basic principle, if you can not win never fight :)having said that, I always have an inner urge to speak up..and let me tell you..I never can control that urge. Then..yes the other side has to fight back..but did I start it?
Guilty :)))) well..I am learning to improve on my self control..but I do get into a fight..so what do I do ? I remain subjective..you may accuse me but I am going to stick to the topic..sort of detach from the issue. Family matters are different, where relaionship does involve you as in person..that time I make one favourite statement,” even if I disagree with you and am against this issue..but I love you and that never will change” So, its like a combination of fight with flight.
I fight the issue but not the person, for I can hate the sin but not the sinner…