oh! all the complains
Nothing is working
Complicated and plain
Money is an issue 😉
All efforts to recover in vain
If not physical, then mental pain
Who is this bugger ?
Who drives me insane
with daily pressure
I can hardly smile again
Am I grumbling ?
Did I just complain ?
Sure its catching it effects brain
Beware ! It may hit you like a bullet train
I am thankful to :http://knittingwithheart.wordpress.com/2013/06/25/ the- wonderful-team-member-readership-award-nominees for nominating me.
To accept this award there are few rules I will need to follow.
1. The Nominee of this wonderful Team Member Readership Award shall display the logo on his/her blog.
2. The Nominee shall nominate 14 Readers, they appreciate over a period of 7 days, all at once or little by little.
3. The Nominee shall name his/her Wonderful Team Member Readership Award Nominees as a post or can post during 7 days.
I am following many bloggers, all are covering life in their own way.Some write articles, few write poetry, others got images /pictures , funny episodes , bitterness..you name it and they have it in the right proportion. Balanced.composed and entertaining.
In my short span of being a blogger, I had the opportunity to receive nominations and to select those I admire..but one thing is important..those I nominated not always want to accept the award..and this award has generously given me 7 days..
So..I would like some team work here..since you all know that I can nominate only 14..
my nominations are as follows :
- Jonathan Caswell
- the culture monk
I would try and notify all those I have nominated 🙂
Incase, anyone feels that they don’t like to accept the nomination, please inform 🙂 I will oblige within 7 days..after which..its over.
thanks for accepting in advance 🙂
My life ..my ways..and then its no way. Some people develop suicidal tendencies and they write about their desire to kill themselves. I read, such an article/ rather an open letter..and in the comment I wrote,” Since you decided to end your life, because of any or many reasons..that I will not argue nor stop you. All, I want to inform you is, from this moment ..YOU ARE DEAD.. Happy ? So, renew your license to live and start to live for others.
Stop looking at yourself, its only in the mirror that you can see..that too is a reflection not the real you. So, the real you..is always seen by others. Those to whom you matter ..or even if you don’t ..forget about that self pity..and hunger for satisfaction..Maybe it doesn’t exists..or if it does..its not inside you..its borrowed.
I am talking about your happiness and contentment , with a successful life. The only life that has been a success that has helped or improved living conditions in the world. Once, you decide that your wish list has other’s wishes as your own..disappointments would disappear.
Any ideas for suicide ..well who has time for that ?
Humor, the best ingredient for a good company. We, all want to smile and if possible laugh all loud, roll too. But, at what cost ? That makes a check, are we planning to ridicule anyone and make that person an object of humiliation ? Or, we can say something funny that although, it involves a person but he is laughing more loudly than anyone else.
Ah! a difference, we are having fun together versus we are making fun of you 😉 Difficult ? Not really, it is difficult to make friends with people who are rude and ruthless, doesn’t care if it breaks your heart but would abuse you or your character , in an insulting manner and their group would laugh at you 😦 this makes the company sad/depressing, oppressive..yes..the bullies..those who are mean and never come out clean..So..who wants to risk themselves with those who humiliate..none..unless you are boneless..
On the other hand, those who can joke with you without any personal attacks or insulting words or behavior are the people you search in a party/ crowd. They instantly bring a smile on your face, naturally no effort..The moment they appear , you get a smile by a wink they have directed towards you. They include you in their humor, in a sophisticated and sweet manner.
The choice of words, the topic and the manner in which they speak, makes you laugh with tears that is due to instant joy.
Satire and humor, often seems easy but is mastered by people who have developed sensitivity to mood, occasion and word play. It is partly natural, but mostly intentional, they have inbuilt sweetness and intelligence.
The bees come to flowers for nectar , it’s the sweetness which makes them buzz around and the fly comes to garbage, its the pungent smell that makes a crowd.
Decide, what you want to offer to those who come across you..sweetness or foul smell 😉 foul language smells real bad ..doesn’t it ?
Life it starts with the family and needs a family to make it healthy and sound. We, got so many roles to play and for that we need partners, for each relationship that has love, respect and trust. So some we are born with others we need to make.
The second social need is, to have friends. Good friends circle, gives you moments that you enjoy freedom and can confide certain character of your personality that is not really acceptable for family members..yes the crazy you ;). They know your family, but you always come first not your family.
The third factor is work. The reason to get up in the morning and get going. To school, office or house work. The sheer responsibilities in your life, makes you energetic and gives you a boost. Compelling to involve and get tired..but satisfied. The whole process of getting mind and body engaged, subjectively makes you feel wanted and important.
Location, that is physical but it has climate, social and political situations that determines the level of stress and way of living. It has to do with freedom in movement and expression. It effects your life span and health condition.
Although just smiling never solves any problem, but it does help to overcome problematic situations. Positive attitude, takes your mind away from worries and get it working at finding a solution. Thinking never makes you frown, nor does it gets your blood pressure rising or diving.
Young or old. You must move for life is a journey..who told you to stop for a break 😉 walk with your spouse or jog with your friends..chase your pet/dog.or run around to impress your girl friend. Just get on your feet and go into the open. Life is to belong to the world..
Yes..yes..food. Eat but never go over the hill . Vegetable are better but you may get fries too. Eat simple, it has a simply fantastic effect on your body weight.
Life is about living..we must enjoy it 🙂
A mother always thinks about her daughter’s wedding..and she wants her to have a husband better than hers. I wonder why ? Mothers want better for girls and not really thinking about boys.
We plan wedding with much detail and arrange everything to perfection. And marriage? How much effort is given by “mothers” in persuading and teaching daughters..to make that successful 🙂
Afterwards.. some mothers like their son-in-laws and others don’t, both always make it clear how they feel..it amuses me..when in-laws act as out-laws..why they got into a relationship when..they don’t think the other is good enough..even as a person..why daggers are pulled..this fight over love..I think that what triggers..groom’s mother doesn’t want to share her son’s love and bride’s mother doesn’t want to share her son-in-law with the real mother..umh..sort of hijacking 🙂
All the pomp and show, expensive gifts and dinners..but what is inside your mind matters more..your relationship doesn’t get better not bitter with gifts..it does with hatred and contempt..
So..when you attend your daughter’s wedding remember, that the groom’s mother also went through pregnancy, morning sickness and sleepless nights, as you did raising a daughter.
Let your daughter be free to enjoy her husband and his family..let her connect with the new family members and guide her to connect groom to your side of family.
Live together, not physically but mentally..accept and smile..life is all about sharing.
The fallen petals in the lovely rains
Dance with me , please dance again
I am feeling your drops that soak all my clothes
are drenched and wet
But I love rains , I am in debt
to the shower that falls from dark clouds
as you float away with grace
leaving earth happy
making sky shine again
rains come each day
to fill my pitcher of joy
I would sail once again
with my handmade paper toys
I left that path
It did lead somewhere
I know it was safe
where they wanted to be
It was their destiny
But I couldn’t follow them blindly
although I was blinded by them
then I asked myself
Do I know where I want to be?
Have I ever been there
No answers no replies
my mind was empty
Still I want to go
where my heart takes me
Somewhere there is peace
I will risk my time and make new roads
if none exists and life ends before I reach
there is no more
yet I know..I have followed my ways
I will not regret nor flee
Safe paths are not for me