renew it ?

My life ways..and then its no way. Some  people develop suicidal tendencies and they write about their desire to kill themselves. I read, such an article/ rather an open letter..and in the comment I wrote,” Since you decided to end your life, because  of any or many reasons..that I will not argue nor stop you. All, I want to inform you is, from this moment ..YOU ARE DEAD.. Happy ? So, renew your license to live and  start to live for others.

Stop looking at yourself, its only in the mirror that you can see..that too is a reflection not the real you. So, the real always seen by others. Those to whom you matter ..or  even if you don’t ..forget about that self pity..and hunger for satisfaction..Maybe it doesn’t exists..or if it does..its not inside you..its borrowed. 

I am talking about your happiness and contentment , with a successful life. The only life that has been a success that has helped  or improved  living conditions in the world. Once, you  decide that your wish list has other’s wishes as your own..disappointments would disappear. 

Any ideas for suicide ..well who has time for that ?

By kalabalu

Architect-urban designer

6 replies on “renew it ?”

That a harsh statement, although suicide is a cowards act, sometimes the brain chemistry is all too powerful to fight back…people fear addressing their issues…that’s the problem of themselves, only which they themselves can address…I know too many vets that wish to commit suicide and I help them out of that idea by expressing the greatness in life and that they are home and we are not in combat any longer…I’ve never entertained the idea of death by suicide, I live with the PTSD and I prosper from it however, some of my veterans brothers have more difficult issues they cannot control without the help of meds…I’m very fortunate to have survived two tours of combat and I pray for all those withs mental issues and for them all to be strong and survive and live out their lives to the fullest of the Great Spirits intent for them. Many blessings to all humans who face such sad obstacles…Red Crow

Yes. The pressure and constant strength in combat, does drain our spirits. You have done a great deed, by rescuing those on verge of collapse that too in real life. That is a greatness, that urge to give a helping hand , encouragement. We, all need it and people like you are the real light , that makes life visible .
thank you for your comment.

Loneliness, lack of communication, absence of a friend or a relative to pour ones woes are the main reason of committing suicide. Sometimes some problem look so big and people are unable to find solution then they think of it. If they get timely counseling then it could be avoided I think.

Yes..some issues are social, other financial and few physical..burdening our souls..when our weak bodies can not endure it anymore..we can not share, nor relief..then it seems suicide is a solution..but in reality its another problem.

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