Do you have a favourite :)

I never had or have any favorite. None.When I was at school, and like girls have scrap books to fill, I too had the opportunity to write..my favorite color, author, book, song, artist, politician, etc.etc..but then I also had a problem ..I didn’t have any favorite but I couldn’t tell this to anyone..So..I thought ,,why not, just list it up and keep it to myself…and then refer back..I even listed , why it is my favorite..how it gets to¬† that level..bla bla..

Now..when anyone ask me..which color is your favorite ūüôā I get blown away.. Is it green? No..Yellow ..nope..Red..a negation..none..I think..I can not have a favorite because..each color is really delightful..it has tones, hues, shades and texture..so many things in a composition has color , as one of the many items that goes into making any product.

I faced, similar issue with friends. Some asked,” Who is your best friend ?”

How can anyone be ,”best” few can be close..but friends are all special..they are the souls I have chosen and they too have accepted me..with all my positive and negative sides…

Talking about sides..can a circle has any sides like a rectangle, square or triangle…answer is yes..the inside and the outside ūüôā

This earth has one sun..but other planets got more than one..if you ask those inhabitants..which sun is your favorite ūüėČ

Yet, it is true . People have a favorite , item , person ..Parents have favorite son or daughter..but then..doesn’t it make others feel they are less..or that parents are judgmental or/and biased.

So..not having a favorite means..I am open to the new / different ideas and people. It is not who said…but what has been said. I have my right to choose..and that may well be more than a few..How many ? Maybe all

Chris asked me find what makes me happy

Does¬† a box of chocolate¬† makes me happy or gets me worried for gaining weight ūüôā

Does  a love song , that opens my heart..making me cry..bring  smile to stay

Do friends messages, replies and acknowledgement I wit for days

Can I be happy on my own ?

I asked myself..what can make me happy ?

My inner voice, laughed and said .” I am Happy , as I can be..nothing to worry no agony..I got my wishes come true in life, those I want to reach out..all in good time..there is no hurry..the present life,is best as I can feel. My health is good, my faith intact, my income steady, I am free ..if I can not be happy now..don’t know when could I be ūüėČ I must be thankful for living in peace..wars surround others near and far..I just want to die in peace.”

To choose
To choose

FRIDAY the 13th

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The stories you heard or rather watched in movies..did it send cold shiver down your spine.

Did anyone think..why Friday the 13th was selected for bringing in the uprising of buried evils from the other side…Not really yet the date and day is popular for remembering a thriller movie.

No one wants to live on the 13th floor of any building nor get an apartment that has a number 13 ..no roads no lanes ..what is wrong with people ūüôā

Nothing..after all it is but natural to be a bit superstitious .

Thirteenth….comes in each month but when it appears on a Friday ..there is a devilish smile..no..nothing is going to happen..just a chance to scare someone or anyone..who is easily convinced about demons and vices..including genie.

From the graveyards/cemeteries who can return to haunt..and if it was so easy..where are all the loved ones. They could revisit us..and as I thought..it came to my mind..suppose we as humans¬† develop a code system or hearing aid..that can make all that inaudible into audible level…and the dead they speak to us..all murder mystery would get solved..we would know what happens after death..and whether our belief is right or not..but those who got burned can they return..maybe..if its about souls only..why not..in our dreams we see our¬† friends who died..they always are silent..few times they speak..why they are mostly silent. I want to know..but in my dream it is not possible to remember all my queries from a world I live in..yet when they come I feel good.

I have no fear about Fridays..nor have any superstitious thoughts about 13..as a date..it is second odd number and starting of number series with a resonating end.

Evil or Devil ..maybe with us everyday and all the time..they don’t use calendar . or do they ? So..why did Jason chose this very date¬† to kill¬† …point to ponder…was it fluke or just that 13 was unlucky after all as it got picked up for naming a horror movie.

The Daily Prompt- Sept. 9th : The Prompt ” Write about building something”

Write about building something..forever  or for long..or for moment..What can you build ..a structure..a monument..what is a ,monument..I think, it is physical entity reflecting a theme..a voice or idea..so..why build it  and not live it. Build it, because you want people to know what your idea is, long after you are dead and gone..although it is your idea but others can live by it..for long. Or, perhaps you are afraid of not leaving behind a legacy and this built structure , of material and form, would be there as a prominent identity..sometimes to serve as a node..others to generate money  or just to be..no reason ..except a landmark for making a right turn, before or after..So, building something has an effect.

Built form influence people’s psychology and , why is it built in the first place..its because of the financier¬† psychology or reason. Structures lives longer or shorter depending why it was built..mostly monuments are survivors..in this ever changing materialistic world..

What else do we build ? Nations..people ..values.. Seems very much from the book..”When I don’t care” attitude is so prevalent , values seems like a phantom from past. Each one makes their own criteria, not bad..just personalized..so¬† much so..nothing is general..We, get confused..whether what we do is correct or not..some of us¬† look up in our religious teachings, some refer to their customs, few get into trends..more confused group ..get into ” answers and questions” ..where a leader or just¬† members with similar or lesser background , give their opinions..we build up on reasons¬† through votes by those who are in that forum..and we get a new version of acceptance…

We, also build relationships..takes time, effort and skill. It is a 24/7 job..there is no holidays..you must be continuously aware and beware of any wrong move..that includes forgetting birthdays..ooops.

In short..life builds, relationships are built, structures are also built and nations are built.

Yaayyy.. I LOVE AWARDS:)

Nominations for awards are really encouraging for me. I find ,nominations as an opportunity and promise, opportunity in viewing others work and promise to make my blog worth the view.

I must thank , lifethroughmyeyes for , her generous nomination of awards for me and fourteen other bloggers, for yaayyy-I- love- awards.

http://simplyswatij.wordpress.com/2013/09/07/yaayyy-i-love-awards/

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Excellence Award

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Never , ever have I received so many nominations together, no wonder these are bunch of happiness, filled with joys..

The rules¬† for these awards are as follows ūüôā

1. Thank  the person who nominated you link back to this awesome blogger.

2. Put the awards logo on your blog.

3. Nominate 15 Bloggers and tell them by leaving a comment on their blog post.

My nominations for the bunch of¬† ” Yaayy-I-Love-Awards” are

  1. http://gammagamification.wordpress.com
  2. http://rafaelpradov.wordpress.com
  3. http://nekneeraj.wordpress.com
  4. http://reowr.wordpress.com
  5. http://keithgarrettpoetry.com
  6. http://manishareview.wordpress.com
  7. http://tienny.wordpress.com
  8. http://deepsouldiver.wordpress.com
  9. http://urbanmethexis.wordpress.com
  10. http://inkaheart.wordpress.com
  11. http://elephantadvice.wordpress.com
  12. http://tracesofthesoul.wordpress.com
  13. http://bensbitterblog.wordpress.com
  14. http://elementaryposters.com
  15. http://mostlybrightideas.wordpress.com

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Come September

Days to remember

when we were together

as friends forever

we tried tricks, so clever

we were  always so close

our friendship was beautiful as rose

yet thorns had to prick..

you promised me to stick

years  in life together

but you left me alone to weep

you drifted in eternal sleep

when now I close my eyes

tears fall silently..as I cry

I miss your smiling lips

my closest friend..how I miss

when you called my name from far

Now I waved at you looking at  a star

I hope you hear my heart

I feel you close still

I know you are with me

you promised ..never to leave

I believe you..I do believe..

death can not take  you away

although buried deep in sand

I close my eyes and see..

you are looking at me.

I ask you one last request

smile once again for me

as you always did

its love..its free

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