To lie or not to lie ;)

White lies or just a lie..not true a disguise..yet we share for a prize..Why do we lie ? To show off 😉 deceive ..to be lazy ..sort of a way to be “bad” with a good name plate..truth was held high and honesty was a policy..but few thought..why lie and why not just tell everyone how bad we are..that uncomfortable blanket of lie was thrown away..and the point of getting embarrassed for a mistake was ignored..people “didn’t care” what others thought..which was fine..but they started to become their own judge..I will evaluate myself ..sounds okay ..only one problem..we live by a system that everyone has mutually agreed to follow ..for a commonality and understanding..what is right and where is it wrong..yes..it may happen what was valid few years before will now become obsolete and will get changed..yet values seldom change..a rude remark..abuse in any form can not be accepted..just because..one person thinks that the way he wants to be..and he doesn’t care what others think..nope..society has evolved to create human rights and they will take action against a human being to upheld a law/rule..so to escape this punishment..people lie..sort of turning white and black to a shade of grey..it is now neither white nor black..so the law can not punish and due to benefit of doubt let you off the hook.
Then we lie to ourselves..by imagining or collecting reasons or justification for our unjust actions..in this we have gone one step ahead in lying..first we committed a mistake and then we have our arguments to support this mistake..see how clever we all are..we are getting better in getting worst..and what is more alarming..we are happy about this double standard and cheater’s life..we ultimately do this for the law/society..earlier we denied that it was unimportant..now we secretly desire to be important in this social ladder..were we lying about our feelings earlier or are we now..should we lie as before or can we stop ourselves..if we can stop or even decide to stop ..it is a step towards saving our souls..we must care for the one thing that lives inside us..it is the reason we live..we are alive..so is it possible to save our souls.

65 responses to “To lie or not to lie ;)”

  1. least we forget, there are also lies of omission.
    And your piece makes me think of denial. Things we are in denial about.

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    1. yes..we are constantly in denial..sometimes we deny more than accept..as if..to deny means to win..is denial a defeat or victory

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      1. Oh by a long shot it is defeat; we defeat ourselves very time we lie to ourselves, but part of who we are needs some bit of denial; hence the need to rationalize, to explain away something that is bad, plus there is the whole issue of ambiguity. It’s rife with complexity once you start diving into this subject.
        I guess worst of all we hate being lied to but we don’t mind lying to protect our skins.

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      2. True..someone once complained..I hate lies..and I retorted..when someone lies we hate it..but not when we lie to others..for we want to trust another..we want to 😉

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      3. But in my hearts of hearts I would love to love a woman I don’t have to lie to

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      4. Not lie to a woman..is dangerous..you may get fired at like a steak..burnt yet eaten

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      5. I think it is possible to be own equal terms with a woman; at least ideally I would like to be; i will hold to that

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      6. we are all equal but balanced I am not sure

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      7. the only way a man and woman can be equals is if you take away the necessity of economics; the more financially free we are, the less we are stressed and the more time we have to be free agents; it’s the imbalance that cause people to lie.

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      8. In life there is a way to live..along the shore or in the depth..how you swim is your call..i like to sail endlessly on a voyage that has no destiny..for me the journey is life.

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      9. But even to state such cliches isn’t that a lie in some sense; that you would place something not yours in place of something that could be yours. See I believe language abets our lying; our mind offers up the very first thing it thinks and we call it truth, but it could just as well be a lie; especially if it keeps us from examining who we really are.

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      10. it is a lie but it is also true..lie in absolute and truth in a relative measure..grapes are sour 😉

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      11. lies can just as well be relative; everything relates to something and lies can even be closer to truth than flat out truth.
        Truth is best reach via the diagonal.

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      12. need a tangent motion

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      13. hitting the ground running tonight are we- a tangent motion: that bespeaks you

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      14. umh..am I getting it 😉

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      15. you get a little room, a garden, table and bed, solitude, company, morning and evening

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      16. room with a view..from there can see the mountains so mighty and still..and the birds that fly away ..from morning till ..it is time to watch the sun rest unless..darkness comes to settle.as the night progress.

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  2. Lies can be a little like dreams… expressions of what we wish for, what we wish was true… or what we’re afraid of… they represent alternative worlds… As literature or poetry, they can be artistic expression. The problem begins when people use lies to mislead others…

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    1. yes..when we write a fiction/fantasy that much is acceptable but should not be used to deceive.

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  5. Great post!! certainly allows one to think…white lies to not hurt a person’s feelings when they dyed their hair fire red and it does not look to great but they love it…so you don’t say you like, but you don’t say you do…omission …is that right or wrong? My mom’s cooking was often not great but I usually said it was just fine:) but I do know what you mean seriously here. Some lie out of insecurities to inflate themselves…it becomes such a habit, they can’t keep track of their lies…that is sad though very sad.

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    1. thank you for your insight.. we live ..and we lie..we die

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      1. And your insight
        makes me think
        that you are right
        if we do lie
        we have to
        take it with us until we die.:D

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