How to balance it out ?

We judge..each action and words included..and then we decide how to act or write in our response. We..react to actions like a bouncer. What if, we were insensitive to the issue and busy in giving a reply ?It will hurt or disturb the initiator of any action.

We, must care for other’s feelings other’s feel; for basically two reasons, first we as human being are responsible in sending hate and love Β emotions and secondly we are accountable for our actions.

The easy way to handle sensitive issues is, to be kind if you want to do justice in any situation , for when we try to be just..we sometime fail and do harm Β or get cruel.

People sometimes comment,”I was straight forward, but at least I was honest” that approach will not do, we must be honest sweetly..and effectively. To lie is a sin, but to hurt is also a sin..we must learn to speak truth ,sensibly sensitively sincerely.

That will make us silent in many situations. which is beneficial for sometime, this deafness makes action louder and we register it clearly.

Life is a balance, like a bicycle ride, keep on rolling , ride it Β ! for when you stop you will either fall or must put your foot down.

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8 thoughts on “How to balance it out ?

  1. You make a valid point. And a lot of times (if not all), it depends on how we say things (ex. tone). For instance, I speak to my mother differently than my husband. I know how to let each of them down gently, when necessary. I talk to people differently at work. But it really depends on the person and situation, and most definitely HOW we say things.

  2. I agree with you and embrace your insightful message… Thank you for being you and sharing in such a caring way. I am not always so eloquent in my choice of words and will choose them more carefully. Thank you for the reminder and the smiles! πŸ™‚

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