We try to get a reputation through behaviour, that sounds the right way. How to start being good. Think you don’t have any good habit to be proud of and the many vices you have are forever getting worse.
First, ask yourself do you really want to be good? in manners and within..or you feel that being good is a punishment. You are doing a favour by being nice? Think..and if you feel bad being good..then start evaluating..clean your heart use lots of forgiveness. Forgive everyone you know, forgive yourself too. How can you feel bad being good? hmmmm
Okay, now manners are embedded in the culture. Location is important, where you are from and belong will dictate how you deal with situations and people. Climate and customs are two main indicators for clothing and codes. Take a moment to analyse where you from? What you do?and where do you want to see yourself?