My nana would tell me, listen to how we speak, you will learn more and learn to listen better. This will go inside you and develop your personality. it will bring a tendency in you to be patient, for we do need to have control on our selves, if we want to be successful.
Why do we need to control ourselves? I would ask her
If you can not control yourself and let self control you, you are doomed. There are two sides in you, the good and bad. Your mind and heart decides what you actually prefer, but this decision doesn’t come unless you learn what is right and wrong, learn to think, learn to listen, learn from other’s mistakes and not to repeat what they have done. Each one of us want to experience, because we think we are better, but some mistakes doesn’t need to be tried..so we must learn not to do those..
But..but..do we make mistakes intentionally ? I asked again.
Sometimes we do and others we are forced to, only occasionally are we are ignorant of the mistakes we commit.