Getting Chase(re blogged)

Life is passing and guess who is chasing. Men are chasing women, and women are making sure that the chase gets interesting by scores. Read any magazine about hows and what regarding men, it is all about deceptions.

Men, are actually hunters, this is not my notion, it s a collective view by fashion magazine columnist. Men are looking for a good catch, big not necessary, slippery not really but yes edible. Once, tasted, like food it has not only to please his eyes but to be eaten with each bite, heart must sing a little and digestive system should not complain later.Then ,he must be satisfied and remain faithful, no wonder people write, that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Too much growling is definitely undesirable, for both.

Young ladies, singles waiting or wanting a perfect man, may have many ideas. But, we must realize that the catch is the hunter,we need to make him feel that he found us not the other way. that would hurt his feelings. He may picture us  woman, not really worth much, other than earning , doing household chores, giving birth to his children and taking all that, he has to offer.What else is he wanting ? I have asked myself this question ?

Today ,I want to share my findings.

The man wants to be entertained. Life is a stage  and woman must be entertaining entertaining entertaining, that is not an error in typing  That is what men are looking for, at office, home, food, street, pubs, games.you name it. men want to have fun. Anything that’s not , is not worth their time and attention.So, what can you do? Women must be able to have her daily review, did I connect with him today? How?

The lists that on daily basis, each one has a connection. mental, physical, emotional, financial whatever, makes him happy . Give him a daily dose, he will come back for more and stay at your door :)) No, he is not a dog.

After all, too much nag nag can put off anyone, why think he can take it , because he is a man. No. he is just like a women, except that he doesn’t have that much patience, and cleverness nor mood swings.

So..chasing must be worth for him and you if you are the prize, of his life. make him feel, you are every bit worth of the hard work and effort.

happy ending for a new beginning..must have humor as a topping

Women are from Mars :)

The Women From Mars… Men were all waiting patiently, for the young women to arrive. They were all capable of changing their faces, figures, names and nature. The men were told, as you think or imagine, that woman would change into your imagination. Each man, then took one woman from the group. They were all wearing veils and cloth draped over their bodies. The couple then moved into a cell, it was bright red when they entered. The man wanted his woman to have lovely auburn hair, the cloth over her dropped exposing perfect hair, next he wanted to see a forehead of medium size. he could now see that but skin color was green. He wanted her to be white, but rosy, her nose straight. And lips so sweet..like a rosebud, neck long and smooth…as he kept on imaging the woman body was exposed. Now, he could see a beautiful woman of his dream, standing in front of him. So, he now wanted her to speak, if Greek or Roman, Italian or American..as per each one’s own mindset she took up her character. Now, was language and literature. Artistic or scientific. Thus it went on and on. They kept on changing her and dressing her ..then undressing her. She was their Barbie doll. Finally, the man wanted her to love him. But she didn’t. Oh! why? She said, love accepts me as I am and never change me..so if you want me to love you. You must accept me as I was originally as before…choice is yours. Few men, thought sex is enough and he took her without love, some thought I can sell her off, some wanted to keep her as a show piece. But only few had the courage to accept love as she was….

Let us think

Suppose, just think if we developed a system or machinery such that whatever we want in a person it could happen. Okay, then we will first improve ourselves. We will improve our learning skills, appearance, thinking strategy, eating habits, sleeping and so on. I am sure after sometime we will get bored. When everything will be perfect, we would like to return back to normal. Where we made mistakes, blunders and failed.

It is human nature to deal with challenges, if nothing stir a storm we can not remain calm. We have to experience it. At times I wonder why we get inclined to listen to gossip, an interview that is spicy, why sex sells? Why negativity is attractive. Why people with money spend so much to wear less ? it is because when you reach the top, you want to jump without wings to experience the fall.

Life is a cycle we ride, it gets worn out and punctured. It gets into accidents and maintenance. The need to heal , the scarcity of real and pleasure to deal with life, makes us alive and kicking.

Trees are old and words are gold

This is a story. Never was told. Long time back, when time was measured with glass hour and shadows from sun, falling on the long pin like bamboo. All the bamboos but one, were in circle..this particular bamboo would swing, each hour. each minute. Tick tick.

The blues elf from the wonder tree would then sing a song..to help the bamboo..tell the time to trees.Why, did trees want to know time..that was a mystery and no one spoke about it. Not because they feared the trees, because no body could speak or think..yes words had disappeared.. the time was suppose to bring those letters back that formed words..

Actually, the tree was complaining that all its branches were getting broken for making the pencil, and the ink from leaves and flowers were killing them. hence, the go green court ordered all those who wanted to write or think, to stop all that immediately or the plant will leave earth.

We.. the lost souls have been told to remain silent..unless we can invent technology to recycle the pencil/lead/ink we use..or else, our entire generation would remain silent..just like today..forever..tick tick tick..the time has sent a message with the sun .

Quickly, we got computers and it was a relief. Alphabets, words and grammar all are back:)

School days

During school break, we all used to run around, drink water or eat something. I was trying to pour water from the bottle to my cup, but accidentally the water had fallen directly to someone’s head .

oops. After that I had to run for the remaining break 🙂

But, it was an accident.

Respect

Respect elders by following the customs they follow

Respect children by letting them live their life as per their goals

Respect co-workers by appreciating their input and acknowledging efforts.

Respect family by giving them quality time

Respect yourself, by listening to your inner voice.

Caring is awesome

When my city’s name pops up on the screen, it reminds you of me. If it is something to get worried about , you think about how I am handling the situation. You know that you can not reach me.

Waiting anxiously for login, you finally see that I am green. You rush to find out about me:) The moment I say, I am okay. You got better things to do than to chat with me. It has relieved you that I am not effected by the problems that the city faced.

You smile, all that was worrying you has vanished. Life was always smooth for you, it is your online friend that gets into situations. Not, very stable. Sometimes, it amuses you at other it confuses you, and alarms too, all that she is capable to stir inside you. Although she is no more and no less than a friend. Someone you became friend recently, she is like any other beings that surround you.