What makes acceptance so important yet difficult.
- It is a challenge for married couples/ or in relationship.
- its a mystery for children when it comes to rules and regulation, at home or school.
- It is a question for parents for decisions they never made.
- It is the first step for friendship.
- It is for humans to accept God.
What makes acceptance so special, is although you never like everything about everyone, yet you agree to work it out towards developing a relationship. You accept, to respect, those who never understand you, you accept to listen those who are 100% tantrums, you accept to hold those who try to break away and you accept to love, unconditionally for ever.
I accept, means , I accept you as you are , where you are , where you from, what you do, as long as you are with me :))
How to work and keep on going ahead :))
People do jobs from 9.00 am to 5.00 pm. They must complete their work and reach targets. But are they alone or do they work in a group. In a group means to work with different minds and experiences. Sometimes, those co-workers are people you hate or they hate you !!! Then what to do ?
Leave the job ? No..no.running away has no gaurantee that other wouldn’t hate you or you them. So..keep your cool and try tofind out ways..
Speak always directly and rationally. You can not afford more misunderstandings.
LImit your interaction to work and subject. Never wander away to personal issues .
Observe others ways and methodologies. it may happen they work differently from you. Try to boost them not suppress them;it is work not war.
Keep looking ahead, don’t think that the job is the end. It is a way to go further in your career, while here learn some thing useful.
Check your conversation style and work procedures. How can you be more polite and clear in thinking and speaking.
Kill them..with kindness. Never be rude nor back bite. It is never rewarded 😉 Rise aboveself and don’t fall under the shoes.
Maintain records for every work submission or initiation. it helps to check yourself and others too. Incase,they accuse you 😉
Report to authority :
If your work is negatively erased or tempered. Report immidiately, its not your work it is actually work done by you for the organization. So , anyone hijacking or disturbing your potential to work is actually harming the organization.
Get a job but keep it too :))
you will learn how much its true