How can you identify someone who is blessed by God

That person will be simple and straight forward. Always give more than you have earned. Will accept mistakes and ask forgiveness. Never get angry on personal matters but will not like immoral behaviour. This person will be a source of happiness, will make life easy for others. Will be helpful and down to earth. If you ever meet someone with these qualities, you can make out that person is blessed.

Truth ?

Do you Like To Be Honest… Honesty is good…but don’t get it mixed up with being true ..it is not really the truth..I feel..honesty means, to be as it is or as you are..not to be something else..for that would make you a fake..there is a difference between faithful and honest.
That is why , we have a favorite sentence, ” No comments ” . it saves from telling a lie.. Or..when asked a tricky question..” write pass ” . it does trigger a lot of ideas in the person’s mind..but he/she didn’t hear from me.
Why do we stop from answering..is simple. Got two ears and one tongue. Hear more and speak less, and always remember use your brains..to understand not only the question..but the consequences it will initiate..maybe a chain reaction.
Gossips..travel fast and get blown up to a mega size too, slowly people hear it often as rumor then they apply the age old saying..where there is smoke there is a fire ..burning..:))
No smoke no fire.. Honesty is the best policy..and speaking less helps to maintain that 🙂

I am a tree..I am grounded yet free

A tree..when you look at it..you find branches holding leaves..and fruits..housing nest and birds..sometimes kids too..and the roots so deep inside..we fail to even think..although we admire the tree..with its trunk, branches, flowers and leaves..for it provides us with shade..insects walking all over..digging into small holes..do you ever think..how the tree..stands..and shakes..moves..and takes..all that breeze..touching its leaves..and when autumn it gets bare to basic..and we know at its branches..stretching outwardly ..are you a tree..rooted deep..serving so many.standing alone…not moving..just holding together..supporting life..are you ?

Life..live and learn

Life… When I was growing up my elders explained.. try not to grumble nor complain. if you want to win hearts or be smart, try to be clever right from star.Never get slow tantrums are a big NO.
Be soft , glow, white as snow, pure as honey and bright as day:)
Kind understanding, love everyone but trust only yourself.
Be as you are, never change but improve day after day after da

Paths in life

Born free..and free to choose. Where to live and how to lose. identity  more than a card or chip..people ask ..where you are from ? Are you a local or on a trip ?

My features are prominent..but others get confused..Asian ..in general..but enemy or friend.. clear  unclear..how can I root again and where is my origin..do I like it ..and if I don’t will I wander away like a leaf blown before autumn ..and want to cling to another tree..I am definitely free..but can hang  only till I fall dead…then what? Will it matter  if I was from mango or maple?

Come to think of it..life on earth is not forever..but more..some believe others don’t..I belong to believers and so I am a bit happy…for the end here will initiate the new  beginning…a  place where souls will be seen…and feel..and enjoy ..the freedom that was sought on earth…I have passed away…and has reached a place..to stay.

Quiz me :)

Ah 🙂 the wonderful series of short quiz..a  play to find my personality..then post it  and show 🙂 what few questions can interpret about me..that others don’t know..but they claim to know me..close..how close? Can they read my mind? Hear my heart ..small talk 🙂 NO !

Come meet me again..this time try to focus on how my  mind works..thinks up stories and poems as a reaction to photographs , articles or stories..why I must write a comment..when others  like and go..I want to register..my feelings  for you…to tell you about what I understood and failed to appreciate..yes my comments tell you more about me..than a quiz could ever define my personality..sweet or sour..dangerous or sassy..come hard on people or always take it easy.

Start now..with the one closest to you.

Good people remains pious and are God fearing , thus making them the lights in the darkness . They are good , because they can control their  desires, wants and disturbing thoughts. Control is the key word, it makes you alert and aware of your action. We do get across people who say,”I didn’t see..didn’t thought..didn’t realize.” What they mean is they have no interest..no responsibility and don’t care for their actions. Some of us nod our head others just shrug shoulder, but if you take a moment and think..that carelessness is “expensive” , it cost in cash and kind.

Question is why we allow people to be careless in life and careful while at school ? Are we not training young  minds to be responsible and caring , or we are just focused on all subjects and ignore the building up of character. Nagging  never helps, it rather gets repulsive attitude. Understanding does..to actually realize we must get closer and think…now that does drain our mental capacity.

To sit and think..why someone acts in weird ways..why they get upset in small issues..why we get thrashed for an answer that was unexpected..and find reasons..we do not have to be judgmental..all we need is to balance it out.

Sometimes , we experience odd behaviors, those who are rude their work is done promptly but those who are  nice and sweet, people ignore their request. The fear of getting a bashing from a rude  person is more and the smile of gratitude from a nice  person. Encouraging that once sweet person to become a “RUDE”  . Yes..our actions lead to changes in behavior so we must act with care..carelessness is expensive 😉

In a dark night

Silence is not expected of you
when in a dark night there two
they never want to speak
not even a word or two
they close off their senses
they don’t need..that’s true
touching the inner desires
fire that burns and brews
the sensations in feelings
those ,,you miss when the kid
lights up the room to view
you turn your to see him stand for loo
the lights you turned off ..to woo
silence is not needed when two got a company to keep
Now..it is time to get some sleep 🙂

Walled up in maze -Miserable Miser

Such high and thick walls..all around like a fortress and there on tops and shielded sides are the secret pointers that can kill anyone twice.

Why do you think its needed ? To make others fear..the wrath ..of a mind that has learned to master the act of being a miser. Why is a miser so mean and angry? Words used are lethal and bitter..that pierce heart and leave the poison to finish hope.

All misers are crafty, they first get miser with money..they love  a good bank balance and makes relationship get imbalanced..slowly..they get miser with love, respect and tolerance. Never can you see a miser , who will smile without a reason.

Many people think that saving is good..it is..but to what extent ? To the limit that you don’t cut out needs of others to keep on increasing your investments returns..You make excuses for attending a ceremony because your time is not to be wasted by being at a place that neither gives you monetary benefit nor gets you acclamation for being so “great” .

Ah! greed for power..leads to becoming a miser which ultimately  gets a miser turn into a tyrant..all you care is about ” Material World” and others..you don’t have time to bother.

 You have made a wall so thick with, greed and cemented with misery, slippery with craftiness and lies are the stones we see..no heart can reach..no mind can think..no soul can live..inside this hell of walled up..empty cell.

You are lost in a maze that is self destructive..you have killed yourself..and buried your consciousness in cold..

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Pleasing everyone :)

The main issue about pleasing is raised ..making people aware that you as an individual is incapable of pleasing everyone. True 100% in reality. Having said that, let us not altogether start irritating everyone 😉

I think, we all belong to a certain community , enjoy a social set up relate to a way of life and for getting rooted , you have to follow certain customs and rules. Being born into a family is not by choice, but you can opt a way out. Get into another group.or belief..each is going to have rules. Question is..why do we need rules.to make life simple..rules requires people to behave, and that helps others to be in peace. So, rules are made to ensure a peaceful living. Some rules are biased, for example the tenant can not use the lift if the generator has to run, but the apartment owners can do that..those are rules that divides a society and is actually bringing chaos into a social setup. We should not accept it, but you can not fight it..for they have made it and you were asked to sign an undertaking that you will follow all the rules levied  on you , if you desire to reside in their apartment block. You can change your residence or save up and buy your own independent house..and say goodbye to apartment living.or, form a group raise your voice against this discrimination , get your article published and join hands with other tenants suffering due to rules that make you pay but not let you use as a resident..form a group and get it approved by the government..

Simply, it means you can choose whom to please..and leave those who can not please you. Imagine, all like minded people would leave old group/school of thoughts and form new groups/social circle.

Human beings need a social setup, for sharing sorrows and happiness, maybe it takes some effort, but it also gives you a boost. Your focus , should be to do the right thing as per your own acquired knowledge and experience,basic behavior must be good. That includes, to be polite, humble , sincere and loving with a sound sense of right from wrong, in respect of the group you belong to whether it is religious, friends circle, cause groups etc.

Pleasing is not bad..you can sing a song and please many..what is bad is..you please at the cost of sacrificing a goodness..you lie to please..that is actually destroying the entire system…So please do not refrain from pleasing others..just remember whom you please and how you do that without breaking or bending rules ( good ones) .

Live honestly, speak sweetly ,work diligently..eat healthy and love passionately.