You are Special :)

Born great or achieved greatness..is a measure only of success in areas you thrived to exists. What makes you great ? Or successful, is judged only by yourself. Your aims and your goals, how you target and when you realize those, virtual and real world. Both, are now the scales to be considered.

The rating, followers, links or friends , is about how you use those. People are calculative, they invest and expect return, in business and in life. They mostly, would re-act to actions. Others inspire and lead, those are the leaders, they have  aim to serve “the people” , their goal is not only about themselves, rather about the areas they want to focus at, which may be humanity or politics, discovery or invention. Then, there are dreamers, they close their eyes and imagine, more into literature or art work, the words are actions and colors their life.

Although, many in between ranges  exists, yet fame has been a crown, that  makes you a King or a Clown. The popular theme, be yourself, means not to be someone you are not . yet..but you want to be..and in this progress if you place the title before the qualification, it retards your development. Makes you a fake too, people ridicule you and tell everyone that you”lied” .People are basically radars, they watch you and seldom look into themselves.

Be special, by being an improved “you”. Never change, because you can hardly change but try to think how other’s feel about you..and then make life easy for yourself and others too.

You may be ordinary, with limited followers or friends..but to them if you are special , then you can proudly say,” I am Special”

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Attention!!

How often have you heard this..attention please 🙂  Very often..from your teachers, friends, parents, children, neighbors,players, boss ..you name it and they have either said it sweetly or yelled ..LOUDLY ..any guesses why ?

You can not give the due attention and sort  of is hyperactive with distractions..Seems simple ..BUT..what if..this unfocused manner has become part of you..ouch! that hurts..You know why..because this time..it is you who is calling for attention.. Your mind is losing it..you want to focus but ..social media has a message for you..and you want to reply..or an email..perhaps a phone call..everything or rather everyone is pulling you..and its bothering you..it is reloading in your mind .. as a creeping nudge.. Sometimes ..its more serious than that..medication makes you  lose pain and lose brains too..so its giving you a black out..sort of you are present physically but not mentally..this disturbance can cause you ..financially..at job or get you into an accident while driving or doing some work.

Yes..it is a PROBLEM ..you are having trouble to focus..there is a need to consciously focus..making an effort to listen..doing a work and directing your thoughts to that one topic/words..Here comes  mediation..Sitting and thinking about a single thing..and bringing your energy towards that point..hard eh 😉

At times, you feel drowsy others you can not sleep..both makes you lousy..even if you want to be perfectly smart at work or home..it is making you weak..and someone would start to nag nag nag..that nagging is now taking your mind away from your present task.. losing focus ..again..ooops..

Seems it is an endless cycle..What can you do ?

Think.. think again..hmmmm ..I know..why don’t you erase your yesterday and just give yourself one task at a time..yep forget that multi-task concept..getting a single task in good time is not bad..maybe people will think you are slow..or bored type person..but..you are sure of what you are doing..that makes work complete and successfully too..not bad.. no more frowning by others about any mistakes due to inattentiveness..

Now..get serious.. check your priority ? Ask yourself

who is important ? What is important? Why its important? When its important? Where its important?

in relations to.people..health.. achievements etc. as the variables.. each person has a circle and time frame for being important. Your family is important but not at your office…so balance it  out. Your virtual life is enriching but real life is pressing..so make it happen in real..Never mix wants with needs..that is dangerous water..if you can not swim in high tide, you will drown in shallow waters too.. Beware..I told you :))

SO..be attentive..make it a habit..and hopefully you will be appreciated .There is a time for everything and place for everyone..realize it quickly 😉

Good bye for now :)

Today when you think its time to go

Make sure you write it once more

a proper ” good bye” is like closing the door

I want to be sure, you have left

Yep..so I can also go 

Please don’t return once we say “bye” 

come tomorrow..don’t ask me why 🙂

you always spoil what I tell you to do

naughty and tricky..I sure do know you

Virtual life has set manners too

Be nice..take care ..see you

Good bye 🙂

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