we fail we try..but no use to wail or cry

Tried..but was not enough like a half cooked meal..a broken seal..a sleepless night..all tried..but didn’t succeed..we know and understand what failure means.

Do we pass everything at once? or we are the Mediocre level people, who are still on trial..trying  means waiting by the other person…as you try to crack it open..many eyes are see what was inside..promises to keep..before you sleep.

No ,it does not mean that you can do everything without a fail , but failing in everything is not really appreciable. People need a break from a person who can drive them insane and depressed..ever watched a stage performance where can not laugh at jokes..cover your ears to save your ear drum…well they were trying to entertain..but all we got was sheer pain.


Laughing at or laughing with

Humor, the best ingredient for a good company. We, all want to smile and if possible laugh all loud, roll too. But, at what cost ? That makes a check, are we  planning to ridicule anyone and make that person an object of humiliation ? Or, we can say something funny that although, it involves a person but he  is laughing more loudly than anyone else. 

Ah! a difference, we are having fun together versus we are making fun of you 😉 Difficult ? Not really, it is difficult to make friends with people who are rude and ruthless, doesn’t care  if it breaks your heart  but would abuse you or your character , in an insulting manner and their group would  laugh at you 😦 this makes the company sad/depressing, oppressive..yes..the bullies..those who are mean and never come out clean..So..who wants to risk themselves with those who humiliate..none..unless you are boneless..

On the other hand, those who can joke with you without any personal attacks or insulting words or behavior are the people you search in a party/ crowd. They instantly bring a smile on your face, naturally no effort..The moment they appear , you get a smile by a wink they have directed towards you. They include you in their humor, in a sophisticated and sweet manner. 

The choice of words, the topic and the manner  in which they speak, makes you laugh with tears that is due to instant joy.

Satire and humor,  often seems easy but is mastered by people who have developed sensitivity to mood, occasion and word play. It is partly natural, but mostly intentional, they have inbuilt sweetness and intelligence.

The bees come to flowers for nectar , it’s the sweetness which makes them buzz around and the fly comes to garbage, its the pungent  smell that makes a crowd.

Decide, what you want to offer to those who come across you..sweetness or foul smell 😉 foul language smells real bad ..doesn’t  it ?



Why?  who ?  what ? and where ?

Went my life, here and there

He got a wife, yet he swears

I am so lonely, nobody there

Woes and worries

thoughts and scares

No one wishes , anything fair

Why we want ways

that;s not  there

Is it wrong, to be aware

Of the reason for a tear

Whenever it appears

I   wish for you dear

That in your life happiness is near

All problems solved, nothing to fear

Why, When, who to gear?

Got control only here

Yes my mind is wild but clear

I take no chances ,drink  no beer

Wonder, why , Woeful tears

Come my way, when I read King Lear 😉